Urban Poly Princess

Last night I went to C my friend's band play at a Frat party. I was a little leery Bcause I have an image in my head of what frat parties R but this was nothing like that. Usually I'm in SLC on the weekend but this was a Logan weekend and I HAD to force myself to do something, ANYTHING!!!-My one and ONLY Logan friend wasn't feeling well or MAYBE she just didn't want to go to a Frat party NOT SURE yet about that.
Sooo I call my other friend-friend #2's brother to C if he's going to this thing and if I can go with him to this thing and I find out HE'S PART OF THE BAND!!! So Yes I go there by myself and I get there half an hour late but surprise, surprise I beat the band. I looked around the lobby and see stacks of the Ensign-a good sign since the party-atmosphere isn't my scene. Friend #3 is there a couple minutes after me so I'm feeling better.
Wow just wow!!! My college experience was VERY different. MayB I just hung with a different crowd because while I was happy people were NOT wild they were laid-back almost to the point of Bing asleep.
The band did great-I liked their original songs best because they were R & B which I will always love even if now I'm in a rock phase.
I remember my first party at the Y-I thought it would B lots of strong LDS boys. Boy was I wrong!-not only were several people drinking, I'm pretty sure the bedrooms were Being used for all types of immorality although since I never went there myself I can't say that definitively but I'm not stupid.
The difference??? Good music blaring-that's hip hop/rap then! AND EVERYONE dressed to impress. Last night I kept wondering if these people owned mirrors. Lots of mingling-not there!!!, lots of guys trying to run their game-uh again if it was there it must have been VERY understated. I give the one guy who did actually try to start a conversation with me credit-he came and talked to me when the band was on asking me if they were my friends. And they R by default-I was excited when the first one moved here Bcause I thought FINALLY-I'll have more than just one. BUT he blew me off which ticked me off bigtime and then the second one did the same thing when he got here and I tried to think yeah o.k. so I'm waaay older than them and hanging out with me is probably the LAST thing they want to do BUT I don't have the energy or time to get to know anyone else and they R good people so I'm going to keep trying BUT I was surprised last night that I'm still miffed. Sooo small doses right now.
New experiences R always good. I'm sure there R other crowds at USU that I wouldn't like now anyway.