Urban Poly Princess

We played a card game - The Big Dalmuti. It is amazing how many board/card games exist. While it was fun I still haven't played a card game with anyone white who starts cheating. That is part of the fun of the games I've played in the past. Also I was such a card game player with my brother. The British version of gin rummy is played a lot in Tonga and thus we also played it a whole lot only it was called 500 and the object of the game was whoever reached 500 first.

I also remember playing monopoly with the neighbors who came over and played with us and the game sometimes went on the entire night. We played Risk like that with Ian and Eric in Tonga. I don't know why white fun is different but it is. Much more mellow. Lulu wants to plan a trip together. I told her we can do that but that we need to get married more. Her last relationship was with someone in the Parley's ward who has aged out and attends his family ward. She went to Hawaii partly to get over that relationship she said ended badly. She took him macadamia nut chocolates.

Lulu told me she knows the men in the Midsingles scene and they don't want Poly girls like us. It makes me sad she is so jaded because she has been my example of what I should be doing and how I should be living my life socially. I kept attending the Tongan Singles wards which were fine but I think I should have attended the white wards a long time ago. I wouldn't even consider dating someone white then. Developing the relationships I did in Logan helped me realize I usually have more in common with white members even if there are things that grate on me. They don't love or respect their families the way I want them to do that. Curtis is the rare exception rather than the rule.

There are more intelligent and educated white men. The intelligent Poly boys tend to also be spiritually weak. I saw Steve last night at FHE. He knows how to dress well. I do like that. I love that he actively strives to live his life well and in harmony with the spirit. He is attractive too. I just wish he was taller although I'm sure he's shorter than me. Lulu knows several people in my ward and she even has a roommate from BYU-Hawaii there.