Urban Poly Princess

Yesterday my friend Uly came to finish some paperwork. He is Colton's bff and used to visit me and hang out in the library usually when Colton was there. He's a body builder and he always is on point physically. My plan is eventually to have him work with some of my clients ONCE I get in shape AND am Zumba certified like my sister-in-law. I talked to Uly for a long time. It was good to see him again. He's 21 and very sweet. He is very active in his assembly of God church that fellowshipped him when he was growing up. He prays every night and morning and attends church each Sunday. He has a great body but unlike Colton he won't sleep with the world or even someone he's dating seriously. Because he grew up around lots of LDS people he always talked about how he wanted to go on a mission BUT he didn't want to join the church to do it.

He told me on his 21st birthday his friend took him to a bar and he tried beer for the first time. He said it tastes like paint thinner and he drank about half and doesn't plan on drinking anymore. Colton kept telling me to set him up with my niece in high school. He seemed to think because Uly is a virgin, doesn't smoke, do drugs or drink that it made him someone I'd want my niece to end up with. NOOO he doesn't have a testimony!!! Colton and I got in a huge fight over that BUT even our fights were NOTHING like my chronic blow-ups with David. Colton NEVER disrespected me even when we fought. David does that repeatedly.

My physical type has always been tall AND gorgeous. I think gorgeous is EVERYONE's type. I don't like super thin but I tend to end up with that. My first David friend was 6 '2, very spiritual, gorgeous AND went to graduate school although NOT brilliant. I always felt he was a little too thin. The first white boy I ever considered in my head at least was my friend Dave Moon from Sandy. He had a girlfriend so right off he was off limits BUT-He was very blonde, tan, not tall-5 '10 but he used to work out a lot before because he looked like Adonis. He sat by me so I had to train him a bunch which is how I found out he was brilliant. He was 22. He would call me up all the time and he always had me rolling. He made me laugh more than anyone I met before. He partied a lot but he loved sushi. He went to the U. I loved the way he dressed too. Like so many people in Utah he was LDS BUT not active. He is the first white boy I've EVER found attractive. Probably because the ones I did meet were goofy LDS boys-GOOD-what I want-BUT-it was nice to meet white boys who care about what they wear.

I worked with Dave right before I met Colton so I set myself up. Colton is 6 '3, fine AND dresses well. I thought my first David friend was too skinny NOOO Colton is waaay too skinny. He has no butt. Colton is a lot like me with his self-esteem. He is brilliant and he knows it AND gorgeous AND he knows it. I've never met anyone as conceited as myself. We both like how we look. BUUUT we also both know how far to take that AND value that-I know I need to lose weight AND he knew he needed to bulk up like Uly. We both know how smart we are too. We have no problem using any of that to our advantage. We are both blunt and demanding. That seems like a recipe for disaster but we got along extremely well.

Dave and Colton helped me even consider white men. Good prep for me if nothing else.

David has a lot of things going for him. That was scary to me at first. I love his Asian/White mix. It's why he's physically attractive to me. He's not tall but he is gorgeous. He's older than any of the other white boys I've ever been attracted to BUT he looks the youngest. It's the Asian thing. He is brilliant, more so than ANY of the BRILLIANT guys I've met. None of them also combined that with graduate school. He is spiritually right there with my first David friend. My first David friend EVERYONE knew was spiritual. This David is just as spiritual but he doesn't strike people as such. He is a lot like me in that. People are always amazed to find out I served a mission. VERY annoying. People never think I'm intelligent either. ALSO VERY ANNOYING. He can dress well and he always looks good at church. He usually looks well everywhere else but once he wore this t-shirt to our ward Halloween party that was ugly AND made him look 12-I thought it would be good to burn it. Sooo NOT important BUT STILL something I noticed.

Matt Downs and Robert Draper were the only guys who joined us for sealings besides bishop. Robert is active and attends ALL the activities. I like that very much. I wish that were enough. Physically I'm not attracted to him AT ALL but even if I could get past that he works at Gossner's cheese factory in production. He's been there 14  years and I don't expect him to change that. I'm going to have 2 master's degrees pretty soon. I'm NOT going to be with someone who can't support me AT LEAST as well as I can support myself!!! BUT that's not enough either. Jared is a high councilman-a very good thing, he owns his own house and drives a very nice truck besides the snow plow monstrosity he drives in the winter. He is alright physically HOWEVER I don't know if he ever went to graduate school OR ANY college. He probably has a bachelor's degree from USU in something. So Jared doesn't sound that bad BUT he is one of the most boooring people I've EVER had several conversations with. He probably isn't boring to most people. We probably just don't have anything in common and I didn't want to find out anything either. He strikes me as someone I could do ANYTHING to. I feel like in a relationship I'd run all over him. I am learning he is pretty popular with the women in our ward REALLY???!!! I don't get it BUT I suppose that's good for him.