Urban Poly Princess

Rainy day today. I wore the sole pair of ugly shoes I own. My snow boots that R great for the rain too but R sooo NOT cute. I was happy I wore them when I drove around the parking lot twice and not 1 space was free. Of course AFTER I parked on the other side of the road and walked to the church there was a free space right in front of the doors that must've cleared when I gave up.

Becky Fridal taught Sunday school today. She talked a lot about judging people because of how much money or education they have and how this is wrong. I agree HOWEVER am I supposed to date someone who isn't living their life the way they could be? NOOO so I should just judge their spiritual state and NOT care that they won't have enough money or skills to move out of their parents' home???!!! I am not trying to be a snob. It's interesting that we would have that lesson immediately after I figure out I'm picky. I'm NOT living in someone's parents' house because I marry someone who  can't afford to move out, I'm also NOT marrying anyone who thinks Mickey D's is a good place to take me to dinner.

I went to school AND got the education I did. Is it wrong for me to expect that of someone else? I don't think so. I would've brought it up but that in itself would not be very good because then I'd be bragging BUT I am an RM, I have an MLS and I will very soon have an MBA. I decided I will make over 100,000 after 5 years. I don't ask anyone everyday if they want fries with that. That is not the life I want. I can be kind and Christlike to anyone regardless of where they work or how much education they have. None of those things makes anyone better than someone else. That doesn't mean I have to date them or marry them.

Many of my friends and family members have told me through the years that I am too picky. That's probably why I'm single BUT I trust in my Father in Heaven and I will ALWAYS do what he wants me to do. He's NEVER told me to marry someone I didn't want to marry. Alright, dating is a different story BUT I've done EVERYTHING I could when I've received direction ALWAYS. I don't always like it AND sometimes I just don't ask because I'm afraid of what I'll have to do BUT ultimately I will never do anything my father in heaven doesn't sanction.