Wednesday, October 24, 2012

All that annoyance for NOTHING. There are a bunch of pictures of Kolo and his wife at the temple. He had a nice wedding yesterday. Apparently my family wasn't invited. WHATEVER!!! AND this is just one more reason why I can't stand aunt fakeness. I'm thinking about my home teachers and the lessons they shared last night BUT if I never see my aunt again, I'm just fine with that. She was rude to my mother AGAIN!!! SERIOUSLY,  JUST LEAVE HER THE HELL ALONE!!! My mother gets on my nerves but I love her very much AND the biggest reason why I'm o.k. with no relationship AT ALL with my aunt is how rude she was to my mother when I lost my dad. She was cutting her down in Tongan in front of me. I think she does that on purpose. She wants me to understand because she wants to hurt people.

I am very happy for my cousin however. I'm glad he got married at the temple. I'm not as annoyed as I once was. She may have a son BUT she's worthy to be married in the temple which is wonderful!!! Kolo did NOT just throw away all he was taught and raised with. He didn't serve his mission for nothing. I hope he is very happy

I talked to Jared who lives on Maui with his wife and 7 kids, to see if he knew what was up. He told me Toutai had the pictures so I looked at them. That would be an elaborate hoax to pull off if he was married somewhere else. There are pictures near the doors of the temple.

He said he would come to Utah for JR's wedding and a cousin he didn't want to name-he meant me!!! Jared is such a brat sometimes but I love him too. We both stayed at my aunt Sala's house at the same time. I had just moved to Utah and he had just recovered from having a brain tumor. We used to run away and visit my cousin Mele. It was during the summer and my aunt Sala didn't have air conditioning. Jared's mom is Japanese but she doesn't speak it and she was raised on Maui. Neither Jared nor I were raised traditionally. Our fathers are brothers so we were both raised by women from Hawaii. Jared is close enough to my age AND male meaning I am supposed to serve him in the house like get him a drink and prepare food for him if he wants it. I WAS NOT raised that way AT ALL. I NEVER had to cook for or serve my brother food.

My aunt spoiled her brothers A LOT!!! She expected me to serve Jared. Your first cousins are supposed to be like your brothers and sisters. I did NOT do that on my own accord BUT Jared would work it as much as possible. If I got myself something to eat or drink Jared would talk about how good my food or drink looked and my aunt would pipe in and tell me to fix Jared a plate or drink. Jared would watch with an evil grin as I did what she said. He over-thanked me and enjoyed EVERY minute of that.

Jared served a mission in Japan. I NEVER thought he'd marry ANYONE but some white girl because that's all he dated. He met his wife at BYU-Hawaii. She is Japanese and an RM.

The week I came home from my mission is the week he left. I had a rice cooker on my mission. I used it a lot. I needed it in California. I convinced Jared to take my rice cooker on his mission. He went to Japan. That was extremely stupid of me to convince him AND stupid of him to take it. They eat rice more in Japan than they do in Hawaii. Stupid, stupid, stupid!!!

Anyway it was great to talk to Jared. I went to my temple interview and waited there 45 minutes. After 20 minutes I called the stake secretary. I left a voice mail. At 10 to 7-my appointment was at 6:15 I talked to the secretary's wife she spoke to Pres. Peck who was unaware that he had ANY appointment. He rescheduled with me for 6pm tomorrow.

I must have amazing temple blessings if I keep getting stopped from working there.

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